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Not every man can say "i love you" that easily. Do not doubt him if he doesn't say so, and don't treat his reply for granted. You have to learn how to appreciate wordless promises. Please believe it, that when he's gazing at you while you smile, when he's ruffling your hair with his hand, when he's holding your hand, he's loving you.
Not every man is good at rebutting you, so when it seems as though he is guilty and speechless, please do not push him away while his eyes sparkle with tears. Probably it seems to him as if it was just a totally unrelated woman, or something he will NEVER do. He will always believe that since that is the truth, he doesn't need any explanation. ladies, do not treat this silence as a confession. Cant you see the helpless look on his face?
You have to know, he isn't superman, nor is he batman. If he cannot appear at your time of greatest need, do not blame him. because when you are helpless and he is not with you, the worry is killing him. Remember, when he's asking if you are alright after the incident, answer him gently, tell him its alright, and not to worry bout you.
His ego is the most important thing to him. in front of his friends, give him the utmost support. if he seems to neglect you in front of his friends,don't be wilful and think negatively. Maybe he just wants to show his friends how demure you are. Don't mind being the woman behind him, because don't forget, being a pampered woman has its benefits too.
Maybe men can never figure out wat a woman is thinking. So if you really say "no" and he walks away, don't swear you'll punish him for that. you have to know, his heart is so clouded with confusion he is probably more down than you are. If he can never get wat you are trying to say, then, tell him frankly, he'll have a easier time, and you can get the understanding you wan too. why not?
Men want their own life too. they miss the games, and the times when they go to the pub or have some chill-out sessions with his friends. Don't call him and hurry him then, and don't ask him why he did not bring you along too. Don't we women love time out on our own too? Give them a break.
Men can have times of weakness too, sometimes they will be depressed for no apparent reason too. When weariness is written all over his face, don't demand that he declare his love for you. Remember, sometimes he cannot bring himself to be happy too. Just stay by him silently, and he can feel your love for him....
to be continue~
